The news was rampant. The situation went viral when it was alleged that a three-year-old boy was playing soccer with his team. His focus was clear: get the ball into the goal. He eagerly chased it and looked for every opportunity to score. His determination stood out, but he had yet to learn how to share the ball and play as part of a team.
According to the account shared, the coach allegedly called the police. The parents and the three-year-old were escorted off the field. It was a sad ending to what could have been a teaching moment.
His determination alone did not establish leadership ability, but it offered something adults could help develop. At three, learning to take turns, cooperate, and manage disappointment is still part of growing up.
This story caught my attention because recognizing emerging leaders is a program that I partner with the Institute of Caribbean Studies in Washington DC. It is avidly supported by the Interamerican Development Bank (IDB), annually.
5 Ways To Spot Young Leaders
How can we recognize and nurture leadership potential in young people, whatever their age? Here are five ways.
1. Notice initiative
Pay attention to those who step forward, suggest ideas, or begin a task without being asked. Give them small, age-appropriate responsibilities and help them understand how their actions affect others.
2. Guide determination toward teamwork
Wanting to score, win, or achieve a goal can reveal drive. Help young people connect personal achievement with shared success. Praise the thoughtful pass, the encouragement offered, and the contribution that helps someone else succeed.
3. Listen to their questions
Young people who ask “why?” may be trying to understand or improve something. Encourage their curiosity while teaching them to listen, ask respectfully, and consider perspectives beyond their own.
4. Look for care and inclusion
Leadership potential can appear in the child who welcomes a newcomer, helps a struggling teammate, or notices someone sitting alone. Recognize these actions and provide opportunities to practice kindness and responsibility.
5. Coach through mistakes
Observe how young people respond when things do not go their way. Help them name their feelings, understand what happened, and choose a better response. Clear boundaries and patient guidance give them opportunities to learn.
Leadership development begins with everyday moments. When we notice potential and guide it with care, we help young people learn to contribute, collaborate, and lead.
The story ended on a hopeful note. Athletes and celebrities stepped forward to support the young boy, recognizing his potential and encouraging opportunities to nurture his talent. A difficult moment became an opportunity for growth.
What signs of leadership have you noticed in young children, and how can we help those qualities grow? Please share. We would love to hear.
