Tag: perspective

50 Lessons At 50

Wisdom deepens with age, and at 50, it’s a treasure.

Here are 50 things I have learnt as I traversed a life dedicated to learning, community and personal growth of myself and others. The excess have been included as a gift for those who are more curious and may choose to adopt a nugget or two as you transition at ages 30, 40, 60 or above.

May you be inspired to achieve.

1. Let no one define what success means to you. Define it for yourself.
2. Afraid? Do it anyway. Fear will fade.
3. Life is just for living. Live it well.
4. Care for others.
5. Trust is important.
6. Try new things. Keep learning. It helps you grow.
7. Self-actualization stops at the top. When you get there, go higher or step back to something that you missed along the way.
8. Be there for your loved ones. If not, you’ll miss the best things in life.
9. Find meaning in the things that you do.
10. Place Work in the right place.
11. Spirituality is important.
12. Some people are beautiful. Others are just searching. They Maybe sad or even lonely. Don’t hold it against them.
13. When you’re at the top, stay true to who you are. You’ll see the same people on your way down.
14. Be cordial. It contributes to your success.
15. Smile often. It attracts.
16. Read. It’s an action.
17. Pray about everything.
18. Give thanks in all things.
19. Say thank you.
20. Stay curious. Ask Questions.
21. Find a mantra – a quote that drives you to achieve.
22. Believe that all things are possible because they are.
23. Get a dog.
24. Don’t understand something? Ask. You may help someone in the same situation as yourself.
25. Show up.
26. Get involved in your community.
27. Roll up your sleeves and work.
28. Go to the beach. Be mesmerized by the waves, the sea and its natural beauty.
29. Look up. Get inspired.
30. Dream it. Then work it. You’ll achieve it.
31. Embrace love. It’s beautiful.
32. Fight for what you want.
33. Don’t give up too easily.
34. Be smart. Know when it’s time to let go.
35. Move on when the time is right.
36. Try something new.
37. Get away often. Stress dissipates.
38. Travel the world.
39. Try a staycation.
40. Bask in beautiful memories.
41. Celebrate other’s success.
42. Mourn with those who mourn.
43. Appreciate depth.
44. Be yourself… always.
45. You’re never too old to try something new.
46. Take care of yourself.
47. Listen to your body. It speaks.
48. Save for a rainy day.
49. Age teaches wisdom but it also brings sighs when you watch others making the mistakes you did because they won’t listen. But remember everyone has to grow on their own path. Don’t be sad, they will learn and make their own U-turn.
50. Pray with others.
51. Listen to that still small voice.
52. Don’t let life pass you by. Stop and smell the roses.
53. Stay engaged. Learn.
54. Relax. Watch a movie.
55. Smell the rain. Embrace the sunshine.
56. Plan a trip with extended family.
57. Be there for someone who needs you.
58. Dress up for no reason.
59. Have dinner by yourself. Experience you.
60. Surprise a friend.
61. It’s time. Don’t put it off anymore.
62. Go for a walk. Ease stress.
63. Call a parent, grandparent or someone elderly.
64. Volunteer to help a neighbor.
65. Go on a solo retreat at least once in your lifetime. You’ll find out a lot about yourself.
66. Keep your eye on that goal.
67. Get an accountability partner or a coach if you need help.
68. Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
69. Journal your thoughts. It’s great to look back and reflect on how far you have come. Besides, it helps build mental strength.
70. Keep your mouth shut. Share only what needs to be said.
71. You can count on me. Can others count on you?
72. Take accountability for your actions.
73. Stay focused on your future but don’t become so obsessed that you miss the journey.
74. Life is what you make it. Make it great.
75. You win some. You lose some. That’s life. Move on.
76. Celebrate.
77. Dance like nobody is watching.